Gary: One of the things that really bothers me isn't just when I judge others, it's when they judge me. Pursah: Their judgment of you is really your own self-judgment that is seen as being outside of you. They're not even there. Yes, it looks like they're really there and the judgment is outside of you, but it's not. When you forgive the other, you're really forgiving what's in your own mind. The…